1 00:00:05,829 --> 00:00:04,230 okay so here we go here's a good one let 2 00:00:06,470 --> 00:00:05,839 me finish this couple sentences and then 3 00:00:08,950 --> 00:00:06,480 you can 4 00:00:10,629 --> 00:00:08,960 respond because we're agreeing that you 5 00:00:12,549 --> 00:00:10,639 know ideally it should be 6 00:00:14,910 --> 00:00:12,559 treated obviously you can choose to live 7 00:00:18,310 --> 00:00:14,920 with it and struggle with it 8 00:00:19,830 --> 00:00:18,320 um lgbt activists 9 00:00:22,470 --> 00:00:19,840 would like you to believe that 10 00:00:24,150 --> 00:00:22,480 transgender should be embraced 11 00:00:27,109 --> 00:00:24,160 and thus the proper treatment is 12 00:00:30,230 --> 00:00:27,119 assisting the person in their transition 13 00:00:32,069 --> 00:00:30,240 to the opposite sex or what they call in 14 00:00:33,030 --> 00:00:32,079 a somewhat orwelli manner gender 15 00:00:37,590 --> 00:00:33,040 affirming 16 00:00:40,470 --> 00:00:37,600 care incredibly they denounce 17 00:00:45,110 --> 00:00:40,480 any care that may help a person identify 18 00:00:48,069 --> 00:00:45,120 with their biological sex 19 00:00:49,029 --> 00:00:48,079 well this is because this has come this 20 00:00:52,310 --> 00:00:49,039 has gone 21 00:00:54,630 --> 00:00:52,320 um i guess if you will too far 22 00:00:55,670 --> 00:00:54,640 uh you know again i i have never 23 00:00:59,510 --> 00:00:55,680 struggled 24 00:01:03,189 --> 00:00:59,520 with someone who's whose 25 00:01:04,549 --> 00:01:03,199 birth assigned gender is reinforced by 26 00:01:04,869 --> 00:01:04,559 some of the things you mentioned whether 27 00:01:08,230 --> 00:01:04,879 it's 28 00:01:11,510 --> 00:01:08,240 toys or or play 29 00:01:14,789 --> 00:01:11,520 or whatever but where it goes too far 30 00:01:17,350 --> 00:01:14,799 is when you try to get a person who's 31 00:01:19,270 --> 00:01:17,360 obviously expressed feelings of gender 32 00:01:22,230 --> 00:01:19,280 dysphoria 33 00:01:23,190 --> 00:01:22,240 and you try to treat that or reverse the 34 00:01:26,950 --> 00:01:23,200 processes 35 00:01:31,190 --> 00:01:26,960 that they've made towards transition 36 00:01:34,069 --> 00:01:31,200 you reverse that by with uh with uh 37 00:01:34,870 --> 00:01:34,079 what they call reparative therapy which 38 00:01:37,590 --> 00:01:34,880 is basically 39 00:01:39,429 --> 00:01:37,600 you know brainwashing or or trying to 40 00:01:42,630 --> 00:01:39,439 convince the person that they actually 41 00:01:46,149 --> 00:01:42,640 aren't transgender 42 00:01:48,310 --> 00:01:46,159 so you mentioned reparative therapy um 43 00:01:49,749 --> 00:01:48,320 we've interviewed some of those folks 44 00:01:51,990 --> 00:01:49,759 and 45 00:01:54,870 --> 00:01:52,000 that is something that you do not 46 00:01:56,789 --> 00:01:54,880 subscribe to 47 00:01:58,709 --> 00:01:56,799 no i think it's a i think it's a really 48 00:02:00,870 --> 00:01:58,719 um it really gives them 49 00:02:02,149 --> 00:02:00,880 it really gives the wrong message i mean 50 00:02:04,389 --> 00:02:02,159 it really is uh 51 00:02:06,149 --> 00:02:04,399 it in fact it's you know it's been shown 52 00:02:07,910 --> 00:02:06,159 to be you know 53 00:02:09,749 --> 00:02:07,920 psychologically devastating for many 54 00:02:11,910 --> 00:02:09,759 people 55 00:02:12,949 --> 00:02:11,920 well we'll get into that in in a second 56 00:02:14,790 --> 00:02:12,959 because um 57 00:02:15,990 --> 00:02:14,800 and i would love to see a debate between 58 00:02:18,710 --> 00:02:16,000 you and them by the way 59 00:02:20,630 --> 00:02:18,720 uh sometime all right well i i i would 60 00:02:24,150 --> 00:02:20,640 win that one 61 00:02:27,990 --> 00:02:26,150 they accept that challenge it means that 62 00:02:29,830 --> 00:02:28,000 you're you're up for it 63 00:02:31,589 --> 00:02:29,840 yeah well i don't i don't come up with 64 00:02:33,190 --> 00:02:31,599 corny numbers and i just look at the 65 00:02:35,190 --> 00:02:33,200 person and say 66 00:02:36,710 --> 00:02:35,200 you know it's just being a humanist or 67 00:02:39,910 --> 00:02:36,720 not you know you want to be 68 00:02:42,710 --> 00:02:39,920 you want to be you you need to be a 69 00:02:43,670 --> 00:02:42,720 human being first and foremost and uh if 70 00:02:45,110 --> 00:02:43,680 you're a liberal caring 71 00:02:46,790 --> 00:02:45,120 if you have a libertarian vein in your 72 00:02:47,509 --> 00:02:46,800 body you've got it you know you can't 73 00:02:50,630 --> 00:02:47,519 you just 74 00:02:52,550 --> 00:02:50,640 gotta let people be who they are yeah 75 00:02:53,750 --> 00:02:52,560 well i think what they would explain is 76 00:02:54,309 --> 00:02:53,760 that first of all the only people 77 00:02:55,750 --> 00:02:54,319 they're 78 00:02:57,589 --> 00:02:55,760 treating are people that have come to 79 00:02:59,670 --> 00:02:57,599 them they don't do the thing where the 80 00:03:01,030 --> 00:02:59,680 parent drags the kid by the ear and 81 00:03:02,470 --> 00:03:01,040 throws them into the camp for three 82 00:03:03,430 --> 00:03:02,480 weeks and they don't do the pray away 83 00:03:06,630 --> 00:03:03,440 the gay 84 00:03:10,149 --> 00:03:06,640 uh et cetera it's all voluntary 85 00:03:11,910 --> 00:03:10,159 and um it gets to well 86 00:03:13,190 --> 00:03:11,920 let me keep going with my my little 87 00:03:15,750 --> 00:03:13,200 speech here because 88 00:03:17,430 --> 00:03:15,760 we we get so what i what i say is why 89 00:03:19,990 --> 00:03:17,440 not treat 90 00:03:21,110 --> 00:03:20,000 a disorder you're going to disagree with 91 00:03:23,270 --> 00:03:21,120 the term disorder 92 00:03:24,550 --> 00:03:23,280 but it still needs to be but we agree 93 00:03:25,100 --> 00:03:24,560 that needs to be treated so let's just 94 00:03:26,550 --> 00:03:25,110 say 95 00:03:28,390 --> 00:03:26,560 [Music] 96 00:03:31,509 --> 00:03:28,400 so why not treat the diagnosis or 97 00:03:35,030 --> 00:03:31,519 dysphoria by trying to minimize 98 00:03:37,030 --> 00:03:35,040 or eliminate it we do that with all 99 00:03:41,110 --> 00:03:37,040 other 100 00:03:44,789 --> 00:03:41,120 diagnoses let's put it 101 00:03:48,789 --> 00:03:44,799 this way such as bipolar schizophrenia 102 00:03:50,789 --> 00:03:48,799 depression anxiety obsessive-compulsive 103 00:03:52,789 --> 00:03:50,799 you're calling it a psychological shame 104 00:03:55,670 --> 00:03:52,799 on you for that that's just such a 105 00:03:57,589 --> 00:03:55,680 such a nasty thing to say that's that's 106 00:03:59,509 --> 00:03:57,599 the old dsm the diagno 107 00:04:01,509 --> 00:03:59,519 that's the psychological diagnostic and 108 00:04:02,949 --> 00:04:01,519 statistical manual that is used to 109 00:04:06,070 --> 00:04:02,959 define 110 00:04:07,509 --> 00:04:06,080 uh gender dysphoria as being a 111 00:04:10,229 --> 00:04:07,519 psychological disorder 112 00:04:11,270 --> 00:04:10,239 and it's the same argument that was used 113 00:04:15,509 --> 00:04:11,280 to call 114 00:04:19,030 --> 00:04:15,519 being gay a psychological disorder 115 00:04:21,909 --> 00:04:19,040 well same thing and only recently 116 00:04:24,070 --> 00:04:21,919 was was this now dr now this has been 117 00:04:27,350 --> 00:04:24,080 dropped from the dsm 118 00:04:27,990 --> 00:04:27,360 and and no longer does the world health 119 00:04:30,629 --> 00:04:28,000 organization 120 00:04:32,070 --> 00:04:30,639 consider uh gender dysphoria to be a 121 00:04:33,909 --> 00:04:32,080 disorder 122 00:04:35,830 --> 00:04:33,919 or a psychological diet but i would 123 00:04:38,870 --> 00:04:35,840 argue that's all 124 00:04:41,749 --> 00:04:38,880 designed to reduce the stigma 125 00:04:43,110 --> 00:04:41,759 which in my opinion there should not be 126 00:04:45,510 --> 00:04:43,120 a stigma for it 127 00:04:46,469 --> 00:04:45,520 at all just as there wouldn't be a 128 00:04:49,590 --> 00:04:46,479 stigma for 129 00:04:52,390 --> 00:04:49,600 any of the things i just mentioned but 130 00:04:52,950 --> 00:04:52,400 you can't change the science simply to 131 00:04:56,550 --> 00:04:52,960 reduce 132 00:04:58,310 --> 00:04:56,560 stigma so the question is the science if 133 00:04:59,350 --> 00:04:58,320 you want to talk about the science the 134 00:05:01,590 --> 00:04:59,360 science is that 135 00:05:03,430 --> 00:05:01,600 every other measure of biology is 136 00:05:05,909 --> 00:05:03,440 represented by diversity 137 00:05:06,710 --> 00:05:05,919 and what we have done in our society is 138 00:05:09,510 --> 00:05:06,720 we've taken an 139 00:05:09,990 --> 00:05:09,520 artificial stance where we have doubled 140 00:05:13,590 --> 00:05:10,000 down 141 00:05:16,469 --> 00:05:13,600 on this notion of having good and evil 142 00:05:17,830 --> 00:05:16,479 black and white and male and female and 143 00:05:20,150 --> 00:05:17,840 we've made it a simple 144 00:05:22,390 --> 00:05:20,160 like a litmus test you want a litmus 145 00:05:24,550 --> 00:05:22,400 test for what's male and what's female 146 00:05:26,710 --> 00:05:24,560 and therefore never the two shall cross 147 00:05:29,990 --> 00:05:26,720 and all of the zones 148 00:05:33,909 --> 00:05:30,000 all of that region in between uh is 149 00:05:38,310 --> 00:05:33,919 is uh is uh uh is verboten and 150 00:05:40,629 --> 00:05:38,320 and not not to be not to be negotiated 151 00:05:43,029 --> 00:05:40,639 well and the fact is the fact is is that 152 00:05:46,070 --> 00:05:43,039 in biologically 153 00:05:48,550 --> 00:05:46,080 the i the notion of gender identity is 154 00:05:50,870 --> 00:05:48,560 represented by diversity 155 00:05:52,390 --> 00:05:50,880 and there is no person on the planet or 156 00:05:54,310 --> 00:05:52,400 very few anyway 157 00:05:55,749 --> 00:05:54,320 other than maybe tom brady and giselle 158 00:05:59,749 --> 00:05:55,759 bunchen who are truly 159 00:06:02,469 --> 00:05:59,759 polar males and females people who are 160 00:06:04,629 --> 00:06:02,479 who are 10 on a gender spectrum or one 161 00:06:07,029 --> 00:06:04,639 on a gender spectrum 162 00:06:07,749 --> 00:06:07,039 that there are most of us lie somewhere 163 00:06:10,150 --> 00:06:07,759 in between 164 00:06:13,590 --> 00:06:10,160 in regards to our gender identity and 165 00:06:15,110 --> 00:06:13,600 that is the biological fact 166 00:06:17,670 --> 00:06:15,120 yeah but what we're talking about 167 00:06:20,070 --> 00:06:17,680 primarily is when there is significant 168 00:06:21,830 --> 00:06:20,080 dysphoria to the point where it requires 169 00:06:23,830 --> 00:06:21,840 some form of treatment and you've got a 170 00:06:25,990 --> 00:06:23,840 lot of parents putting their children on 171 00:06:27,350 --> 00:06:26,000 puberty blockers you have a lot of them 172 00:06:28,870 --> 00:06:27,360 ultimately deciding to do sex 173 00:06:32,070 --> 00:06:28,880 reassignment surgery 174 00:06:35,270 --> 00:06:32,080 so there's treatments going on there 175 00:06:36,710 --> 00:06:35,280 for this um for 176 00:06:38,790 --> 00:06:36,720 i guess what you would consider the 177 00:06:41,029 --> 00:06:38,800 extreme amounts of dysphoria you're 178 00:06:43,510 --> 00:06:41,039 saying that hey there's a spectrum 179 00:06:45,189 --> 00:06:43,520 everyone has some level of dysphoria 180 00:06:46,629 --> 00:06:45,199 let's say or at least a good percentage 181 00:06:47,590 --> 00:06:46,639 of the population have some level of 182 00:06:49,510 --> 00:06:47,600 dysphoria but 183 00:06:52,070 --> 00:06:49,520 some of it becomes the sun such an 184 00:06:54,390 --> 00:06:52,080 extent that it's impacting their 185 00:06:56,950 --> 00:06:54,400 day-to-day life to the point where 186 00:06:59,830 --> 00:06:56,960 they're seeking treatment 187 00:07:01,189 --> 00:06:59,840 yes well we've you know we've also uh as 188 00:07:04,710 --> 00:07:01,199 a society 189 00:07:06,710 --> 00:07:04,720 uh unfairly given 190 00:07:08,790 --> 00:07:06,720 people only two boxes that they can kind 191 00:07:11,350 --> 00:07:08,800 of live in 192 00:07:12,150 --> 00:07:11,360 and it's it is possible that in time 193 00:07:14,950 --> 00:07:12,160 that maybe 194 00:07:17,029 --> 00:07:14,960 if there was more acceptance of people 195 00:07:19,110 --> 00:07:17,039 living 196 00:07:21,270 --> 00:07:19,120 not necessarily at one or the other 197 00:07:22,550 --> 00:07:21,280 extreme that maybe there would be fewer 198 00:07:25,990 --> 00:07:22,560 surgeries and a few 199 00:07:28,550 --> 00:07:26,000 and a lesser desire for hormones 200 00:07:30,230 --> 00:07:28,560 but right now we are we we have a we 201 00:07:32,469 --> 00:07:30,240 have a binary system 202 00:07:33,670 --> 00:07:32,479 i mean there is an emerging group of 203 00:07:37,110 --> 00:07:33,680 people who 204 00:07:39,029 --> 00:07:37,120 seek to live non-binary and they're not 205 00:07:41,510 --> 00:07:39,039 necessarily seeking hormones or 206 00:07:42,390 --> 00:07:41,520 surgery they're living somewhere in 207 00:07:45,589 --> 00:07:42,400 between 208 00:07:50,469 --> 00:07:45,599 but if someone has a xy 209 00:07:52,869 --> 00:07:50,479 chromosome which means that they are 210 00:07:53,830 --> 00:07:52,879 male correct no it doesn't i just told 211 00:07:56,070 --> 00:07:53,840 you the examples 212 00:07:56,869 --> 00:07:56,080 is that a large number of i was just 213 00:07:58,790 --> 00:07:56,879 making sure that 214 00:08:00,150 --> 00:07:58,800 that i got it right that x y is male and 215 00:08:03,029 --> 00:08:00,160 x is female because like it's 216 00:08:04,390 --> 00:08:03,039 not sometimes it's not it's okay not 217 00:08:08,550 --> 00:08:04,400 always okay 218 00:08:10,710 --> 00:08:08,560 not always if you have a penis 219 00:08:12,309 --> 00:08:10,720 then okay i'll say that okay let's just 220 00:08:13,029 --> 00:08:12,319 start with that let's say if you have a 221 00:08:14,469 --> 00:08:13,039 penis because 222 00:08:15,990 --> 00:08:14,479 drop that you got to drop that 223 00:08:17,749 --> 00:08:16,000 chromosomal thing because there's too 224 00:08:18,869 --> 00:08:17,759 many exceptions to it 225 00:08:20,629 --> 00:08:18,879 so yeah well let's just say 226 00:08:21,990 --> 00:08:20,639 hypothetically you're you're x y and 227 00:08:24,830 --> 00:08:22,000 you've got a penis and 228 00:08:26,469 --> 00:08:24,840 testicles okay and you're a 229 00:08:29,430 --> 00:08:26,479 five-year-old 230 00:08:30,629 --> 00:08:29,440 but but you're identifying as a female 231 00:08:32,790 --> 00:08:30,639 okay 232 00:08:34,790 --> 00:08:32,800 what the the boy is expressing to his 233 00:08:36,230 --> 00:08:34,800 parents why do you keep calling me a boy 234 00:08:37,750 --> 00:08:36,240 i'm not a boy i'm a girl 235 00:08:39,350 --> 00:08:37,760 i want to wear girls clothes i want to 236 00:08:40,709 --> 00:08:39,360 hang up so 237 00:08:42,469 --> 00:08:40,719 how could that be anything other than 238 00:08:47,829 --> 00:08:42,479 psychological 239 00:08:49,910 --> 00:08:47,839 if he has if he has a penis and and 240 00:08:53,190 --> 00:08:49,920 testicles and he's xy 241 00:08:54,550 --> 00:08:53,200 but he's saying i identify as female 242 00:08:56,389 --> 00:08:54,560 where else would that come from but his 243 00:08:59,509 --> 00:08:56,399 brain once again 244 00:09:02,790 --> 00:08:59,519 once again gender identity trumps 245 00:09:05,509 --> 00:09:02,800 uh trump's genitalia so 246 00:09:07,910 --> 00:09:05,519 gender identity always trumps genitalia 247 00:09:09,190 --> 00:09:07,920 okay so i'm with i mean 248 00:09:11,430 --> 00:09:09,200 that there's a distinction between 249 00:09:14,949 --> 00:09:11,440 gender identity and 250 00:09:18,790 --> 00:09:16,790 so so what you've got is you've now got 251 00:09:22,310 --> 00:09:18,800 a boy who's gender identifying 252 00:09:23,910 --> 00:09:22,320 as a as a girl even though he has a 253 00:09:26,949 --> 00:09:23,920 penis and testicles and he's 254 00:09:29,190 --> 00:09:26,959 xy so the question is what to do 255 00:09:31,030 --> 00:09:29,200 as if you're a parent in that situation 256 00:09:33,829 --> 00:09:31,040 and number one number two 257 00:09:34,310 --> 00:09:33,839 i say how could it be anything other 258 00:09:37,430 --> 00:09:34,320 than 259 00:09:38,310 --> 00:09:37,440 psychological and be in his brain if 260 00:09:39,829 --> 00:09:38,320 he's xy 261 00:09:41,670 --> 00:09:39,839 and has a penis and testicle so i don't 262 00:09:42,310 --> 00:09:41,680 understand why you get worked up when i 263 00:09:44,389 --> 00:09:42,320 suggest 264 00:09:45,829 --> 00:09:44,399 that it's something psychological i 265 00:09:47,829 --> 00:09:45,839 don't know why it has to be in the brain 266 00:09:49,350 --> 00:09:47,839 because it's not psychological it's it's 267 00:09:51,590 --> 00:09:49,360 biological it's what they think about 268 00:09:53,990 --> 00:09:51,600 but where is it if it's not in the brain 269 00:09:55,350 --> 00:09:54,000 okay well you know again it's not just 270 00:09:58,710 --> 00:09:55,360 in the brain because 271 00:09:59,269 --> 00:09:58,720 uh you know it could be it it's a it's a 272 00:10:01,350 --> 00:09:59,279 component 273 00:10:02,630 --> 00:10:01,360 it's a it's a biological makeup of what 274 00:10:04,790 --> 00:10:02,640 that child is 275 00:10:06,150 --> 00:10:04,800 which is a combination of anatomy 276 00:10:10,069 --> 00:10:06,160 genetics 277 00:10:13,990 --> 00:10:10,079 uh hormones uh uh 278 00:10:16,829 --> 00:10:14,000 imprinting uh uh 279 00:10:18,470 --> 00:10:16,839 fetal imprinting but nothing to do with 280 00:10:21,990 --> 00:10:18,480 psychological 281 00:10:23,829 --> 00:10:22,000 that 282 00:10:25,990 --> 00:10:23,839 is part of the makeup but it isn't a 283 00:10:27,670 --> 00:10:26,000 purely psychological problem 284 00:10:29,670 --> 00:10:27,680 that's all i'm trying to tell you it's 285 00:10:31,670 --> 00:10:29,680 not appear so boiling it down to a 286 00:10:34,790 --> 00:10:31,680 purely psychological problem 287 00:10:37,509 --> 00:10:34,800 is not only it's pejorative it's it's 288 00:10:38,310 --> 00:10:37,519 it's inflammatory and it's it's not 289 00:10:39,590 --> 00:10:38,320 accurate 290 00:10:41,430 --> 00:10:39,600 yeah well i don't know why it's so 291 00:10:42,870 --> 00:10:41,440 pejorative and so inflammatory i don't 292 00:10:44,550 --> 00:10:42,880 think that it should be but that's kind 293 00:10:45,670 --> 00:10:44,560 of the crux of my argument is that for 294 00:10:47,430 --> 00:10:45,680 some reason because 295 00:10:48,710 --> 00:10:47,440 if it's psychological that means it's 296 00:10:50,470 --> 00:10:48,720 it's malleable and it's 297 00:10:52,150 --> 00:10:50,480 and it's amenable to change that's what 298 00:10:53,910 --> 00:10:52,160 you're that's the argument that's the 299 00:10:56,230 --> 00:10:53,920 natural conclusion by what you're 300 00:10:57,990 --> 00:10:56,240 by stating that but it does it does 301 00:10:59,509 --> 00:10:58,000 change and people say all the time how 302 00:11:01,110 --> 00:10:59,519 they change in their fluid and they go 303 00:11:02,710 --> 00:11:01,120 from one side to the other so 304 00:11:04,150 --> 00:11:02,720 trans community seems to be open to the 305 00:11:05,509 --> 00:11:04,160 idea that it can be fluid throughout 306 00:11:07,590 --> 00:11:05,519 your lifetime 307 00:11:08,790 --> 00:11:07,600 but now you're suggesting that oh no 308 00:11:10,550 --> 00:11:08,800 it's not malleable so 309 00:11:12,550 --> 00:11:10,560 which is it is it malleable or not 310 00:11:14,069 --> 00:11:12,560 doesn't matter the malleability isn't 311 00:11:15,430 --> 00:11:14,079 the issue the melody you're trying to 312 00:11:18,550 --> 00:11:15,440 make the malleability 313 00:11:18,870 --> 00:11:18,560 make it a psychological issue well i'm 314 00:11:21,350 --> 00:11:18,880 saying 315 00:11:22,790 --> 00:11:21,360 at least in part it's psychological are 316 00:11:24,790 --> 00:11:22,800 you willing to acknowledge at least 317 00:11:26,150 --> 00:11:24,800 what i said that's what i said it's you 318 00:11:29,190 --> 00:11:26,160 know the the who you are 319 00:11:32,630 --> 00:11:29,200 and how gender identity is established 320 00:11:33,590 --> 00:11:32,640 is a is a myriad you know very complex 321 00:11:36,150 --> 00:11:33,600 formula okay 322 00:11:37,750 --> 00:11:36,160 so emerges before the age of six and 323 00:11:39,750 --> 00:11:37,760 that's the important point 324 00:11:41,829 --> 00:11:39,760 i and and based on those people i spoke 325 00:11:43,430 --> 00:11:41,839 to i totally agree with that that it it 326 00:11:45,190 --> 00:11:43,440 it's at a very young 327 00:11:46,630 --> 00:11:45,200 age so if you're willing to acknowledge 328 00:11:50,470 --> 00:11:46,640 that psychology plays 329 00:11:53,829 --> 00:11:50,480 some role in it what role does it 330 00:11:56,790 --> 00:11:53,839 play and what what would make 331 00:11:58,389 --> 00:11:56,800 a boy at six years old four years old 332 00:12:00,790 --> 00:11:58,399 five years old 333 00:12:02,790 --> 00:12:00,800 from a psychological perspective be more 334 00:12:05,910 --> 00:12:02,800 inclined to identify female 335 00:12:07,829 --> 00:12:05,920 well this is why this is why generations 336 00:12:08,710 --> 00:12:07,839 of guilt has been heaped upon parents 337 00:12:11,110 --> 00:12:08,720 because 338 00:12:13,350 --> 00:12:11,120 they're you know you have a child who's 339 00:12:14,389 --> 00:12:13,360 who's very slight who's very feminine 340 00:12:18,230 --> 00:12:14,399 appearing 341 00:12:18,710 --> 00:12:18,240 whose uh uh spermatic chords are very 342 00:12:21,910 --> 00:12:18,720 short 343 00:12:22,470 --> 00:12:21,920 probably you know who runs lower levels 344 00:12:27,110 --> 00:12:22,480 of 345 00:12:30,790 --> 00:12:27,120 let's say 346 00:12:33,430 --> 00:12:30,800 and uh and uh her brain said 347 00:12:34,790 --> 00:12:33,440 feel she feels that she's she's female 348 00:12:36,790 --> 00:12:34,800 not male 349 00:12:38,870 --> 00:12:36,800 how do you go to that person and say oh 350 00:12:40,949 --> 00:12:38,880 no no no you you really you're really a 351 00:12:43,190 --> 00:12:40,959 boy you just need a macho up you need to 352 00:12:43,829 --> 00:12:43,200 tough it up you need to build body build 353 00:12:46,470 --> 00:12:43,839 and 354 00:12:48,069 --> 00:12:46,480 we need to get you you know work on your 355 00:12:50,870 --> 00:12:48,079 brain to make you 356 00:12:53,590 --> 00:12:50,880 the john wayne you were meant to be well 357 00:12:57,910 --> 00:12:55,910 it's horseshit it's it's just it's just 358 00:12:58,870 --> 00:12:57,920 folly it's again it's trying to it's 359 00:13:00,870 --> 00:12:58,880 trying to 360 00:13:01,990 --> 00:13:00,880 you know it's it's it's the notion that 361 00:13:04,550 --> 00:13:02,000 you know every ch 362 00:13:05,350 --> 00:13:04,560 every boy child is has the potential to 363 00:13:09,269 --> 00:13:05,360 be 364 00:13:12,710 --> 00:13:09,279 either a potential uh either a john a a 365 00:13:14,949 --> 00:13:12,720 tom brady or a or a killer 366 00:13:17,590 --> 00:13:14,959 i mean this is all militarism that sort 367 00:13:19,509 --> 00:13:17,600 of that that fuels this 368 00:13:21,509 --> 00:13:19,519 this notion that we need to have our 369 00:13:24,710 --> 00:13:21,519 boys are potential soldiers 370 00:13:26,310 --> 00:13:24,720 it's just simply not true well 371 00:13:27,990 --> 00:13:26,320 but we're starting from the premise that 372 00:13:28,470 --> 00:13:28,000 gender dysphoria is something that we 373 00:13:31,430 --> 00:13:28,480 would 374 00:13:32,870 --> 00:13:31,440 prefer to prevent if possible and 375 00:13:34,550 --> 00:13:32,880 ultimately i wouldn't say prefer to 376 00:13:36,150 --> 00:13:34,560 prevent it again you're making a you're 377 00:13:39,189 --> 00:13:36,160 making a judgment on it 378 00:13:39,670 --> 00:13:39,199 that that aspect you know it's it's 379 00:13:41,030 --> 00:13:39,680 inner 380 00:13:42,710 --> 00:13:41,040 this isn't a new thing you know this 381 00:13:46,069 --> 00:13:42,720 goes back to the the pope 382 00:13:49,350 --> 00:13:46,079 the popes the ancient times uh 383 00:13:51,430 --> 00:13:49,360 literature mythology art history 384 00:13:53,509 --> 00:13:51,440 they all attempted to explain what were 385 00:13:55,670 --> 00:13:53,519 then intersex conditions 386 00:13:57,829 --> 00:13:55,680 but they were just an extension all all 387 00:14:01,350 --> 00:13:57,839 intersex conditions are genital just 388 00:14:06,389 --> 00:14:04,310 diversity and all transgender is is is 389 00:14:08,470 --> 00:14:06,399 brain diversity